Episode 17: Misogy-No-No

In this episode of the New Lesbian Podcast, we discuss the 50th Anniversary of Pride and what Pride means for us, our love of the NYC Dyke March, and the prevalence of misogyny in the queer community. We discuss a listener’s reaction to our last episode, and Edie also reads an excerpt from her new memoir. Then, it’s everyone’s favorite segment, Who Would You Do: Friends edition!

Thoughts on anything you heard in this episode? Tweet or email us! Let’s discuss!

Episode Links:

World Pride 2019

Stonewall 50th Anniversary

NYC Dyke March

Personals Instagram account

“The Cautionary Tale of Personals” (Daily Dot Article on Personals’ race problem)

Can Lesbians Be Misogynistic? (Bustle Article)

Butch with a Side of Misogyny (Autostraddle Article)

On Lea Delaria’s Misogynistic comments

“Fat Monica” on Friends

Edie’s Book, Married Divorced and Gay by 30, on Amazon!

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Episode 16: Married Divorced and Gay by 30

(Tech note: This episode is recorded in Stereo, so you need both earbuds in!)

Well, it’s been over a year–quelle surprise–but we’re back! Listen in for an update on our lives, how we’re making our relationship work this time around, an exciting announcement about Edie’s memoir (finally!), and a lovely listener update. We also dig in to someone identifying as straight after identifying as queer–what are the implications? What does it mean? And finally, everyone’s favorite segment, Who Would You Do: Killing Eve edition!

Thoughts on anything you heard in this episode? Tweet us! Let’s discuss!

Episode Links:

Edie’s Book, Married Divorced and Gay by 30, on Amazon!

Killing Eve Write-Up on Autostraddle

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Episode 15: Rebirth and (Lesbian Bed) Death

THREE MONTHS after recording this episode (and almost TWO YEARS after the last episode was released, oops!), Edie is finally back, and with a special guest! Listen in for a major life update, plus an in depth discussion of “Lesbian Bed Death” (spoiler alert: not a real thing, don’t call it that!) and how to navigate differing sex drives in a relationship. IMPORTANT STUFF, LOVELIES so listen up!

And of course it wouldn’t be an episode of NLP if we didn’t descend into pop culture randomness and give some shout outs to 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days, and our fave radio host, @michcoll (Michelle Collins)!

Thoughts on anything you heard in this episode? Tweet us! Let’s discuss!

(Note: this episode ends abruptly due to technical difficulties. Sorry!)

Episode Links:

Article on LBD: https://mental-health-matters.com/the-truth-about-lesbian-bed-death/

Read this book: Sexual Intimacy for Women by Glenda Corwin

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Episode 14: Just Edie

What it says on the tin! It’s just Edie in this episode of the New Lesbian podcast, and she answers a listener question that has at some point been ALL of our question in the early stages of realizing that maybe we’re not-so-straight–how do I actually start dating women?? What do I say? What if I’m Bi? Is that ok? (Short answer: yes.) Then a mini-check in on Edie’s mental state, and a new segment, “Edie Reads” where she gets a little passionate about a book that you should really read. Like, now.

 

Show Links:

Edie Reads…Radical Acceptance by Tara Brach

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Episode 13: Queer Round Table

OMG you guys! Episode 13 is finally here, only a year late! Settle in for an hour+ conversation between Edie, Elle, and 5 of their closest friends about all things queer. We cover dating apps, the disappearance of gay spaces in New York, the politics of Fire Island, freedom (or not) from gender roles and labels in the world of same-sex relationships, and tons more.

Thanks so much to our brilliant, thoughtful friends for being on the show: Eric, Jay, Mere, Sean, and Zara!

Share your comments on anything you agree OR disagree with on the New Lesbian podcast website, or hit me up on twitter @edie_wyatt.

New Lesbian blog

Episode 12-Much Gay. Very Questions.

We answer more fantastic questions from you lovelies, like: How do you meet gays in a conservative town? How can you tell if someone you’re into is gay? How do you tell a husband/boyfriend that your sexuality has shifted?? Then, Edie can’t help herself and gushes again about how powerful it is for us to share our stories with each other. Sharing is caring! Then, it’s Peeves and Props and Who Would You Do, and somehow we spend 20 minutes talking about Youtubers. Sorry, not sorry! #Hangrid, anyone???

We do our very best to answer your questions, but we want to hear from YOU! Share how you’ve handled issues like the ones we discuss in this episode in the comments at newlesbianpodcast.wordpress.com OR on ask.fm or twitter (links below). Tell us your experiences and we’ll share them on the show–let’s share what we’ve learned, and how we’ve coped. We can all help each other to not feel confused or alone. xx

Show Links:

Tumblrs for meetups: meet-me-at-gay | lesmeet

Opening Up by Tristan Taormino

Sense of Self with Hannah Hart  on YouTube (Hangrid magic)

My Drunk Kitchen: Gays of Thrones on YouTube (more Hangrid magic)

Diva Magazine feat. Hannah Hart

#hangrid on Tumblr

Flula on YouTube

Hannah Hart on YouTube

Ingrid Nilsen on YouTube

Mamrie Hart on YouTube

Ari Fitz on YouTube

Bluestockings Boutique (save 15% with code NEWLESBIAN through September!)


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Episode 11: Advice from the Edge

In this episode of the podcast, we answer more great questions from you, including how to fight fair (spoiler alert: we don’t know!) and how to help a trans sibling. Then it’s Who Would You Do, where we learn about Edie’s obsession with Chopped on the Food Network. PLUS: A special offer from our favorite online underthings boutique, Bluestockings Boutique!! We love them.

Also appearing in this episode: Tequila; rogue low rumblings because we kept knocking against the table (sorry guys!)


Show Links

10 rules for friendly fighting

translifeline.org

trans* help

“I Think I Might be Trans…Now What?” Pamphlet (Advocates for Youth)

Resources from PFLAG about supporting Trans family members

Bluestockings Boutique –enter code newlesbian for 15% off!

the Chopped judges

Edie in Marie Claire UK-buy the issue here

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Episode 10: Queer Mailbag

In this episode of the New Lesbian podcast, we celebrate marriage equality (yay!!), answer some questions from you, our lovely listeners, and talk about some of the emails and comments we’ve gotten in the past 6 months while we were off the air (and give you some dirt on why we REALLY weren’t podcasting).

We’ve heard some really powerful stories from so many of you–please keep writing in and sharing your experiences and advice. Let’s help each other–that’s what this podcast is all about!


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Episode 9: Queer News Roundup

Finally! It’s Season 2 of the New Lesbian podcast and in this episode it’s a queer news roundup: the tragic continuing trend of teen Trans* suicides, the unveiling of Caitlyn Jenner, the WNBA romance debacle, and the rise of the gay Youtuber. We round things out with everyone’s favorite/most hated segment, Who Would You Do: Harry Potter addition, where Edie explains why Virgos make the best lovers. PLUS, we’ve got a fancy new mic, and don’t quite know how to use it! (Please excuse the weird noises.) Happy Summer, lovelies!

Show links:

Leelah Alcorn

Caitlyn Jenner in Vanity Fair

Laverne Cox on Caitlyn Jenner

Youtuber Ingrid Nilsen’s coming out video

Refinery 29 article about Ingrid

Ingrid Nilsen with Hannah Hart on My Drunk Kitchen

The Bleacher report on Britney Griner and Glory Johnson

I Am Here: The Untold Stories of Everyday People“-Edie has a story in this new book from StoryShelter!


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Episode 8: Happy Thanksgaying!

It’s Thanksgaying at the New Lesbian podcast and Elle is a little drunk! In this episode we talk about how we handled yet another family gathering in the pseudo-south, the continued annoyance of having to endlessly come out, and how much of our hiding our relationship might be coming from…ourselves? Then it’s Props and Peeves, where we rant a little too much about Amtrak trains. We recorded this episode late at night, so bear with us, lovelies! Happy Thanksgiving!

Show Links:

Lesbian couple denied hotel room in Hawaii

New Lesbian blog post: Coming Out… Again

Props of the Week: Daddy’s Out —www.daddysout.com  Twitter: @daddysout


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